Nj\u00eb grua hyn n\u00eb nj\u00eb dhom\u00eb. Para se dikush t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoj\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb, \u00e7far\u00eb di apo \u00e7far\u00eb ka arritur, ka shum\u00eb gjasa q\u00eb dikush ta ket\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb re tashm\u00eb pamjen e saj. A \u00ebsht\u00eb e bukur? A \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00ebse? Si i ka flok\u00ebt? Ka v\u00ebn\u00eb shum\u00eb grim? I ka b\u00ebr\u00eb thonjt\u00eb? Kush ia ka dizajnuar rrobat? Dhe, n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre, vet\u00ebm pas gjith\u00eb k\u00ebsaj arrijm\u00eb te pyetja m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme: Sa e zonja \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebn?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb kufizohet n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend, nj\u00eb brez apo nj\u00eb lloj t\u00eb caktuar shoq\u00ebrie. Qoft\u00eb diplomate, mjeke, avokate, gazetare, shkenc\u00ebtare, sportiste apo drejtuese biznesi, pamja e nj\u00eb gruaje mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet pjes\u00eb e bised\u00ebs n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb rrall\u00eb ndodh me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb. Nj\u00eb burr\u00eb mund t\u00eb hyj\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb takim t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb vler\u00ebsohet thjesht p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb thot\u00eb dhe at\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebn. Nj\u00eb grua mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrs\u00ebri njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb diskutojn\u00eb p\u00ebr flok\u00ebt, pesh\u00ebn, rrobat apo grimin e saj p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb flasin p\u00ebr aft\u00ebsit\u00eb e saj profesionale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dhe nuk ka asgj\u00eb t\u00eb keqe q\u00eb grat\u00eb t\u00eb kujdesen p\u00ebr pamjen e tyre. Nuk ka asgj\u00eb t\u00eb keqe me grimin, rrobat e bukura, manikyrin, takat e larta, flok\u00ebt e shkurt\u00ebr, flok\u00ebt e gjat\u00eb apo \u00e7do m\u00ebnyr\u00eb tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb paraqitjes s\u00eb vetes. Problemi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb bukuria. Problemi \u00ebsht\u00eb ideja se bukuria duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb gj\u00ebja e par\u00eb q\u00eb v\u00ebm\u00eb re te nj\u00eb grua dhe, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, gj\u00ebja m\u00eb interesante q\u00eb kemi p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, pamja e nj\u00eb gruaje \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje e saj. Bukuria \u00ebsht\u00eb subjektive dhe nuk ekziston nj\u00eb standard universal me t\u00eb cilin mund t\u00eb matet vlera apo t\u00ebrheqja e dikujt. Edhe m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb se asgj\u00eb nga k\u00ebto nuk na tregon n\u00ebse ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb inteligjente, e aft\u00eb, e sjellshme, ambicioze, gazmore, krijuese, e disiplinuar apo e zonja n\u00eb pun\u00ebn e saj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Standardi i dyfisht\u00eb b\u00ebhet edhe m\u00eb i duksh\u00ebm kur grat\u00eb hyjn\u00eb n\u00eb fusha q\u00eb tradicionalisht jan\u00eb lidhur me burrat. Nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb ndjek futbollin ende ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb shihet si nj\u00eb kombinim i pazakont\u00eb: n\u00ebse di shum\u00eb p\u00ebr loj\u00ebn, njer\u00ebzit mendojn\u00eb se duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb \u201cdjaloshare\u201d. Nga nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb punon si mekanike pritet t\u00eb duket n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb caktuar, sikur riparimi i nj\u00eb motori dhe mbajtja e manikyrit t\u00eb kuq t\u00eb ishin disi t\u00eb papajtueshme. Por pse duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n